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Nothing of which to the first dispute: we divorced!
Today's couples seek spiritual help to rescue their relationship at all costs

With the help of the Catholic Church and some professional therapies, many marriages around the world managed to overcome situations that had them on the verge of divorce, a fact that threatened to bring more devastating consequences for society and, worse, for children.


Author: Francisco Luna Macías | Source: www.desdelafe.mx



Nothing of which to the first dispute: we divorced!
Today's couples seek spiritual help to rescue their relationship at all costs
By: Francisco Luna Macías | Source: www.desdelafe.mx

With the help of the Catholic Church and some professional therapies, many marriages around the world managed to overcome situations that had them on the verge of divorce, a fact that threatened to bring more devastating consequences for society and, worse, for children.

This was explained by the specialist in sociodemographic studies Dr. Fernando Pliego, when he announced a series of trends worldwide that establish as a priority to maintain marital stability, even with the adversities of modernity. The UNAM academic referred to the fact that these measures are gaining increasing popularity as public policies in several countries, and summarized them in four tips for the readers of the weekly magazine Desde la Fe:

1- Seek spiritual and psychological support. As soon as the married couple detects that some problems appear because disagreements and disagreements start to hurt, we must immediately go in search of spiritual help with a priest and, also, a professional therapy. Do not think that you can solve it by yourself. The moment the situation arises, it is because it is about to overflow.

In some countries, it is becoming a widespread practice to seek help from the Church and professional therapies from specialists in psychology and human behavior. Dr. Pliego cited that in several states of the American Union, Canada, and Australia, couples are advised to go to a marriage settlement and to exhaust the alternatives before reaching a divorce.



The specialist considered that this first point is becoming increasingly important to preserve the family unit. He also said that the current situation opens the Catholic Church the opportunity to teach the faithful to have better courtships and marriages through courses and programs, which help more to prevent than to remedy the catastrophic effects of divorce.

2.-Make decisions by common agreement. Dr. Pliego's views are based on the study of Social Sciences and, based on this, it has been shown that marriage provides the best opportunities for well-being for its participants and that the strongest marriages are those that know work and make decisions as a team.

3.- Cultivate emotional intelligence. This aspect is considered by Dr. Pliego as of great importance because the man must understand that the emotional cycles of the woman are present and that both have differences defined by the very nature of gender. As a very well-researched hypothesis that states that a woman talks a lot when she is in trouble and demands that they listen to her, while the man in trouble prefers to remain silent. According to the academic, there is a diverse bibliography that helps to try to understand the differences between both sexes, which ultimately improves the marriage relationship.

4.- Practice solidarity. Let there be a genuine concern for the husband's well-being, and of him towards the wife and children. It is that to have a family you have to make an effort, just like when you practice a sport or a job. The family also needs dedication as well as marriage, because those who do not know how to be supportive can not have a good family.

The most valuable thing of one as a person is their time, and parents should give it, as well as their effort and solidarity, even if this implies putting aside short-term tastes, calling parties, smoking, driving in an inconvenient state, or the raw, and change such for other long-term tastes, which are taken care of the liver, get along with the family, see the children grow, and have a family to love.








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