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Different but equal
Experience shows that a couple has to be different to complement each other

Experience shows that a couple has to be different to complement each other


Author: Maria Luisa Robles | Source: Catholic.net



Different but equal
Experience shows that a couple has to be different to complement each other
 

It is difficult to understand the statement, if we are different we can not be the same. It says a law of physics that the opposite poles attract. Experience shows that a couple has to be different to complement each other. Now, both must contribute to this union their good qualities, be generous and teach the other to overcome their shortcomings and enhance their qualities. Like pieces of a puzzle, they form the landscape of life in common. If one is patient and calm and the other is active and nervous, together they will form a good team.

Everyone needs to encourage their tastes, as long as there are times to do things in common. They don't need to have the same hobbies whenever they look for common projects that attract and excite the two.

Everyone must have their space, their leisure time with which they enjoy and relax. It's compatible.

The tasks don't need to be divided. If one of the two has a better attitude and aptitude for cooking and the other one for the children, they can try to take responsibility for what is better trained. Everything will work better. Endeavor to do everything and at all times, something for which you are not prepared is not a good system.



For that reason although we are different we will be equal, we will divide the tasks agreeing on those that we like the most.

Something very important is to always praise everything they do for us and us. The coexistence with "how good is the paella!" What a clean thing you have left! "Do not tell me you have put the washing machine, great! "It is a great remedy to continue doing with desire and desire to excel. It costs very little and is worth a lot.

On the contrary, to force to always do what I like, without yielding in the least, does not give good results.

Since we are different, let's not encumber ourselves and impose our wishes. It is indeed a two-way road and you can not always go there.

As always, generosity is the secret of success. When we understand that the happiness of him or her is ours is when we understand that despite being different we are the same.

One day I wrote: Two paths and one path, two wounds and one pain, two stanzas and one song, two bodies, and one spirit.
This is how our union should be.

Hebrews 13:16
And do not forget and do good and mutual help; because of such sacrifices God is pleased.

Sentence
You have created us different, man and woman created us, but that difference is to enrich us and show that we are equal in goodness and love.








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