If you love me, show me: marry me!
Marriage commitment transcends a ceremony, it's true. But it is also true that the decision to take this commitment, visibly and palpably, in front of society, is a sign of the importance we give to it.
By: Adolfo Güémez | Source: Analysis and News

Is it worthwhile to continue marrying in the Church? In a few words: Yes, but only if you have faith and you get married for love!
 
Getting married for the Church is not a formal ritual, purely cultural, but an excellent way to channel the stability and growth of a couple's love.
 
The commitment of marriage transcends a ceremony, it is true. But it is also true that the decision to take this commitment, visibly and palpably, in front of society, is a sign of the importance we give to it.
 
Through marriage, the couple tells God and the world that their love is serious. They want to overcome selfishness, and they are willing to belong to each other for the rest of their lives. Is there anything more romantic than this?
 
In free unions, individuals are left unprotected and the commitment is diluted, running the risk of not fighting enough to move the relationship forward.
 
In marriage, on the other hand, commitment is total and involves the maturing of affection, always opting for the other, for defending love. It provides the conditions for love to grow in solidity and depth, making it a reality in daily life.
 
Choosing to marry is the expression of the desire to convert two roads into one. And never to separate them, no matter what happens!
 
Pope Francis says that "the refusal to assume this commitment is selfish, interested, mean, does not just recognize the rights of the other and does not finish presenting it to society as worthy to be loved unconditionally."
 
That's why it's not about fashions. Marriage is inscribed in the very nature of love!
 
Getting married has indeed become a high-risk sport. I am not blind to the number of divorces that are taking place in the first few years of marriage. But can we accept less? Can true love not seek a commitment for life? Can there be momentary love?
 
The only way to avoid divorce is not having a divorce as an option. Give the other a yes in which you can always trust, without restrictions or small letters. Commit to being always at his side, that he will never be abandoned, even if he loses his attractiveness, there are problems or new pleasure options are presented.
 
The phrase of every man and woman in love should be: "If you love me, prove it to me: marry me!"