16 Tips to Avoid the Marriage Crisis
Author: Gloria Elena Franco | Source: catholic.net
The marriage crisis can sometimes be caused by a defective communication. The crisis itself supposes a rupture of the communication.
This rupture manifests itself in an open manner when the deal and dialogue cease to exist. Or it may appear veiled when the relationship is continued on the basis of monosyllables.
In any case, what is intended is that these moments of conjugal disagreement (normal on the other hand in marriage coexistence) are transitory and mild, thanks to the good will of the spouses.
1.- Golden time
Dedicate time to the other but do not confuse quality with quantity.
2.- Frequent departures
Go out with your spouse with some frequency. Do not limit yourself to "take" your wife from home, worry about "going out with her" to something that pleases her.
3.- Listen and listen
When he-she speaks to you, do not limit yourself to hear, stop working, or leave the newspaper aside, look him in the eyes. He or she will find out that he is listening to you.
Keep alive the illusion of the first day of courtship. Conquer him daily. Worry about your personal arrangement.
Remember often the happy moments shared by the two.
6.- Dreams of lovers
Dream like lovers but keep your feet on the ground like husbands.
7.- Looking ahead
Make future plans that help you improve the present.
8 .- "There is no other like you"
Make yourself feel the other as necessary in the conjugal relationship. Find your company
9.-The importance of celebrations
Remember the important dates. If you celebrate them together, better!
10.- "Help me!"
Ask your spouse for practical solutions to your problems: it can help you a lot and it will also help to unite you.
Do not criticize him before friendships, even less when he is not present.
12 .- "It's a surprise"
Surprise her with small unexpected details: a gift, a special dinner, a nice news, some flowers, the dress she likes.
13 .- "I was thinking about you"
Look for him or her when you get home. He will love to know that you come thinking of him.
14.-A kiss when saying goodbye
Do not forget to say goodbye before leaving. A kiss every day is a highly recommended practice
15.- With the truth ahead
Be always sincere but do not manifest it in an unpleasant way.
16.- "I want to be with you"
Prefer your spouse rather than your friends, prove it often.