I will agree to one request to help someone
by Father Edward McIlmail, LC | Source: Catholic.net
Lord, I come before you humbly. As one who has
frequently fallen into sin, I am aware of my weakness. Your great love, though, assures me that your
grace can keep me on the path to holiness.
Lord, let me better
imitate St. Joseph in the way I deal with the people around me.
1. No Gloating:
Joseph was taken aback to learn that Mary was expecting a baby. Here was a woman he always knew
to be beyond reproach. Legally he could have denounced her publicly. Yet he didn’t. He was ready to
let the whole matter drop quietly, as if to give Mary the benefit of the doubt. What a great virtue
this is: to think the best of others! It reflects a heart of peace and calm. How many friendships
have ended ? indeed, how many wars have started ? because people assumed the worst of someone
else. Have I ever judged the motives of someone else, only to learn later that things were not as
they first appeared? To whom should I be giving the benefit of the doubt?
Notice that the angel appears to Joseph only after he decides to do the
charitable thing and send Mary away quietly. So it often goes in the spiritual life: God reveals
more of his plan to us only if we respond to a crisis with charity. It is as if Jesus says, “Treat
others well and you will begin to understand me better.” In a crisis, is charity my first
3. Jesus Portal:
This Gospel passage could be called a second
Annunciation. At the first Annunciation, Mary said "yes" to the angel. Now, Joseph’s "yes" was
needed in order to ensure that Jesus would have the appearance of an earthly father (and a reputable
lineage). Jesus often wants to come back into the world, so to speak, to touch lives: through a work
of charity, a word of kindness ? or even a new baby. He counts on our help though. What help
could Jesus be asking of me so as to carry out his plans? Could I be thwarting his plans because of
laziness, stubbornness, or selfishness? Is he asking me to cooperate with someone? With a loved one?
A classmate? A co-worker?
Conversation with Christ:
You wonderfully invite
me to help you in your mission to
save souls, Lord. You respect my freedom, and you want
to respond out of love. Let me appreciate that truth fully,
and let me be generous with
I will agree to one request (big or small) today to help
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