Divisions in the Family
Friday Fourteenth Week in Ordinary Time
I will pray or make a sacrifice for a family member who is away from the faith.
by Father Edward McIlmail, LC | Source: Catholic.net
Lord, you are the one constant in my life. You are my beginning and my end. I love
you as my savior. I trust you as my closest companion. I hope in you as the one who will welcome me
into eternal joy.
Grant me, Lord, a deeper union with you as the only one
who will never fail me.
1. Trust, But Not Too Much:
A key paradox of Jesus was that
he loved us so much that he underwent the horrors of crucifixion to redeem us and give us a chance
at salvation. Yet, he also knows our weaknesses. He knows how fickle the human heart can be. "Jesus
would not trust himself to them because he knew them all, and did not need anyone to testify about
human nature. He himself understood it well" (John 2:24-25). Likewise, Christ warns us not to put
too much faith in other people. Like us, everyone else has weaknesses. Our faith in them should be
relative and realistic. It shouldn't be on the same level as our faith in Christ. Do I put "too
much" faith in others? Do I realize that expecting too much from them leaves me open to needless
2. Betrayal for Siblings:
Christ is the rock against which the waves of
humanity crash. His demands cut to the heart of each of us, and require a personal response. How
each person responds is a mystery. Some will say yes, some will say no. The division within each
person can echo in divisions within families. Little wonder that kin can be our fiercest foes.
Christ's own show of steadfastness assures us that he remains more loyal than even family members.
Can I accept that following Christ can cause friction with my loved ones? Can I offer up my trials
for their salvation?
3. Love Without Sacrifice:
Christ never promised his followers
an easy life. If he had, there would be no shortage of disciples. He knows what really makes us
mature in love: sacrifice. Sacrifice purifies us, ennobles us. Love without sacrifice is a fairy
tale. To love means to share in another's pain. "When men and women demand to be autonomous and
totally self-sufficient," said Pope Benedict XVI in a speech February 9, 2008, "they run the risk of
being closed in a self-reliance that … reduces them to an oppressive solitude." Similarly, if we
close ourselves to God's pleasure, we stay stuck in our littleness. Can I accept suffering for
Christ as a way to break out of the cocoon of my comfort?
Jesus, it's not easy being your follower. Opposition can arise on all sides, even
from within the family. Help me bear all this well, for love of you. Grant me the serenity to
persevere in the faith. I offer my sacrifices for the salvation of those who oppose my following
I will pray or make a sacrifice for a family member who is away
from the faith.
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